Be bold! Most boys like it very much if his partner takes the active role in kissing. You should make the first few moves, but make sure he is comfortable with them and with you. Just make sure you're ready for this. Remember to give a chance to the guy. After the guy kisses, you can curl your arms around his neck for emotions to groom deeply. Give him the chance of first passionate kiss. Convey your emotions by your lips!
Steps
1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.
2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
3. Be forward about your feeling and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling so desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out!
4. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
5. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
6. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
7. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation - no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
8. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips, he will get the signal you want more!
9. If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!
10. When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.
11. Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.
12. Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.
13. If he doesn't like you then he doesn't, try and get over it. Also, don't try running back to him or running after him. That won't even make him think twice!
14. If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies thats him asking for it.
15. If you make him feel comfortable he will make the first move!
16. Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.
17. If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.
18. DON'T think too much! Just think about him... a.k.a. how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him. Stuff like that.
19. Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy!
20. Don't be too hesitant, if you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away! it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!
21. Also remember that many boys are shy. If there is something between you two, and you still haven't kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.
Tips
* The first few times that you kiss him make sure that it's not in front of a whole bunch of people--especially people that you or he knows. A lot of people are uncomfortable kissing in front of others, yet enjoy it in private. Secluded areas are an excellent place to make your move!
* Smell great, wear some cologne or perfume but not too much.
* Don't wear lipstick or sticky lip gloss that will make him worry that he will get it all over his face. Any simple, flavored lip balm will do nicely, especially Lip Smackers with Strawberry, and Watermelon flavors. Lip Smackers has a nice sheer color, it isn't sticky, you can get it at any drugstore and it is very kiss friendly!
* Listerine pocket mist and strips are great ways to zap the bad breath fast. Drink water too.
* If you think you are going to kiss, try to offer the guy a mint just in case his breath smells or something. If he says no and you think his breath smells then put two in your mouth and while kissing, stick one in his mouth. That way you wont have breath issues.
* Don't smoke cigarettes, as some men don't like that, and try to avoid alcoholic drinks. Brush your teeth regularly for the best effect, and just to be safe, always carry a breath freshener (mints, etc. but don't use chewing gum - see below).
* Don't make a mess out of it. Not the first kiss. It may be unpleasant for some people.
* Make yourself available, but don't attack him. Let him know that you're ready, but allow him to go in for the kill.
* Most guys want to kiss you. If you think he wants to kiss you, but just is too shy, go ahead and move in.
* Make sure that you both are alone so that it's just the both of you and when you kiss it will be a little more romantic. Even if you haven't kissed before make it seem as if you have.
* While kissing, if in the right position, touch his face, chest, or back.
* If you don't want the guy to get too "handsy," hold his hands down by your waists, it's cute but he can't grope you.
* Make him feel comfortable: compliment his cleaning up and his clothes because guys go through a lot of work to look nice.
* Some guys find it very sexy if you kiss them on the corner on the mouth, or when you go in, then slowly pull away with a teasing smile. Just a little smile. And maybe bite your lip just a little bit while smiling because some guys find that very sexy! They may, however, pull you into a kiss anyway...
* Don't forget to breathe! Just breathe lightly through your nose (some guys won't even mind if you breathe lightly through your mouth, but a lot don't like it). You wouldn't want to pass out during your first kiss!
* try licking around his mouth and on his cheeks for an extra effect. the boys love it.
* Don't be afraid, if you're nervous chances are he is too.
* Boys love kissing and touching (so long as you don't over do it) and so there is only a small chance of rejection. Just go for it!
Warnings
* Make sure that if all you want to give is a kiss, you make clear that is all you are going to give. Set your limits.
* If at all possible, try not to use chewing gum to freshen your breath. Chewing gum builds up saliva in the mouth, which, if you've had something strong to eat or drink, can make your breath smell worse than it was.
* If you want to show passion in your kissing do not eat the person off like a rottweiler - major turn off.
* Accept rejection. If you are more mature about it, he may start to like you and change his mind.
* After you kiss don't act all happy and peppy, but do act like you enjoyed it. Guys like it when they know they did something that pleased you.*Don't act depressed or sullen after you kiss; it just might send the wrong message across.
* Don't use a kiss to let a boy know how you feel about him. As romantic as it sounds to start a romance with a bang, if he isn't interested in one, or if there are reasons he isn't taking the initiative with you, you might end up causing some problems for yourself.
* Don't do anything you don't want to. If he pressures you to do something you don't want to, he probably isn't the right one.
* Make sure that you don't drink milk or take any liquid medicine right before a kiss, because it may leave a bad aftertaste in both of your mouths.
* Make sure he is ready for it and that you aren't going too fast, this might ruin the whole relationship.
* Make sure that you don't have any food stuck in your teeth. Guys don't want to kiss you and get food in their mouth.It is a major turn-off and it's gross.
* Make sure your breath doesn't smell!
* Don't kiss when you have a cold sore since it is viral and may be passed to him.
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