It happens to the best of us women. We fall for a guy that simply doesn't like to kiss. Nothing can kill the mood more than or worse, make us feel less desirable about ourselves than having a boyfriend that doesn't like to kiss. After all, as the song goes, "If you want to know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss". Fortunately, there are a few sure-fire ways to ensure that your guy learns to love kissing you.
Steps
1.Let him know
Let your boyfriend know in no uncertain terms that you like to kiss him. You really wish that he would kiss you more often, so tell him. Tell him just how important it really is to you and your relationship together. This is sure to encourage him to try kissing you more often.
2. When he does try to kiss you, notice how he does it. Is it a light, feathery brush of the lips? A hard, dominating kiss? Or a passionate, open-mouthed, lingering kiss? However he kisses, it may not be the kind of kiss that you prefer at first. Even if this is the case, never criticize his kissing! The reason that he didn't like kissing you in the first place may have been due to the fact that he doesn't feel like he knows how to kiss well. It's up to you to rebuild his confidence! Decide what kind of a kisser he is and follow his lead. If he's a soft kisser, and you prefer deep, passionate kisses, then kiss him softly at first but slowly open your mouth and introduce him to a passionate kiss. If his kiss is sloppy and you prefer a hard, demanding kiss, wait until he's least expecting it, grab him and plant a hard kiss on his lips. Show him that it's okay to kiss spontaneously, and that, depending upon whichever mood you and he are in at any given time, the style of kiss is sure to change.
3. Once he feels comfortable kissing and confident in his ability to do so, he will love kissing you as much as you love kissing him. But remember, encouraging him and praising him when he kisses you (even if he isn't the best kisser at first) is the only way to make him feel confident enough to continue to try kissing you. And, eventually, through practice and your examples, he will become a fantastic kisser, and love doing it!
4. Entertain the idea that you might not be a good kisser, or that he might not like the way you kiss. Simply asking him how he likes to be kissed will often garner appreciation and an instant make out session.
5. If he is nervous then complement him on his kissing (e.g. 'stop being nervous you are an excellent kisser') he will stop being nervous and start kissing you more often.
6. Guys feel will sometimes fell nervous and start shaking and if you are waiting for him to make the first move, you won't get it so, make the first move because it will tell him that you are comfortable to kiss him and he will stop being nervous after the first kiss and you might even get a kiss from him.
7. When you go for the first move and he looks surprised just wait because chances are that he will kiss you back and if and when he does kiss you don't just sit there like a puppet because he probably won't appreciate that you aren't kissing back so, KISS BACK FOR YOUR MAN!
Tips
* Try looking deeply into each other's eyes before kissing - it will add a more romantic feeling to the kiss.
* Touch him on the arms and shoulder, and lean your head on him to let him know that you want to kiss him.
* Devote an entire night to just kissing each other - play around with different kinds and different styles of kisses and show him how much fun it can be.
* Kiss him hello and good-bye every time you see him and leave him just to accustom him to the action of kissing you - even if it's only a brief peck on the lips.
* Make sure you have fresh breath!
* Diving in for a kiss never works, It is important to lean in slowly for him to catch the drift.
* If your partner doesn't want to, don't force him, it will ruin the kiss.
Warnings
* If he is refusing to kiss you but insists on having sex with you, then he may not be interested in you for anything other than having ali. A kiss is, according to a lot of people, more intimate than anything else - even intercourse. If ali is willing to forgo the most intimate act with you in lieu of having sex, then he probably isn't interested in having an intimate, emotional relationship with you.
* Don't ever tell your guy that he's kissing the wrong way. There is no right way to kiss. You may prefer to kiss one way, but other people may prefer to kiss a different way.
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