Kiss a Girl

The main problem that a guy faces when trying to kiss a girl is knowing if she's ready or not. If she isn't ready, he will probably end up with a slapped cheek, a freaked girl or a call the next day from the girl saying that she feels uncomfortable with the relationship.




Tips

* Look into this girls eyes and comment on something, eyes are the best. Say" Wow, your eyes are gorgeous. So captivating." Then slowly lift up her chin, and lightly kiss her on the lips. If she wants more, she will kiss you back.


* Many young teenagers are nervous about kissing a girl in the movie theater. but it is fairly simple, one must not think too much about the kiss. Put your arm around her, and just move in, it doesnt matter if she notices you, because as you get closer she will probably turn around, and follow through. during the kissing you must make an "oh" sound with your lips to create the motion. Playing with tongues is also a very pleasurable idea.

* Some girls like a short kiss for the first kiss. Others like longer ones... see what she is doing and follow her.

* Kissing during an on screen movie can sometimes be a good idea. Try doing it when you feel the tension has sufficiently mounted. Also, it's usually okay to go in for the kiss if you catch her looking at you during the movie.

* Look at the how to kiss a boy section-it has the signals that a girl wants to kiss you, like looking at your lips.

* It is probably best done in a private place, so that you two feel more comfortable.

* Offering to do it in a bed may make people uncomfortable, and they may feel pressured.

* You can put on some music to set the mood.

* Gently put your strong hand behind her neck; like you are holding it up for her.

* You could try candles - they set a passionate mood. But be careful: don't overdo it! Girls like you for who you are, so be yourself! There is also the threat of a fire.

* Discussing what you and your partner like and dislike helps a lot when heading towards kissing.

* Make sure your breath smells good, clean -- use mints if you need to. (Note: sometimes the mints may not be enough. In that case, try using a little peroxide before you brush -- don't forget your tongue. And make sure to floss regularly. Most of the time, these steps can eliminate the need for gum or mints.)

* If you have braces, make sure they're clean.

* Talk to her while kissing each other. Girls like it if you whisper nice things. For example you can say something like: "You're beautiful" or "I dreamed of kissing you since I saw you the first time." You may want to come up with your own, because girls may think its cheesy if you have it rehearsed and practice talking while kissing: It´s important that your lips don't lose contact with hers while talking.

* Put your strong hand pointer finger under her chin. Tell her she's amazing, and lean in with a slight smirk.

* Don't come across as someone that just wants her in bed. Ever.

* Asking a girl if you can kiss her also works, because you make it a simple question with a yes or no answer and no complications. Say something like " I'd like to kiss you (name)". However, if you want to be smooth, ask her "Do you want to kiss me?" (You are focusing on what she wants instead of presenting it as something you want.) If she says yes, kiss. If she says maybe, say "Let's find out" and go in for a kiss. If she says no, say "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." (Source: The Game, Art of the pick up artists)

* Slide your lips across hers a few times, without actually kissing her. This will drive her insane and make her extremly passionate when you finally do kiss her.

* During a pause, smile at her girls love this.

* If you have been dating and kissing for awhile, you may need to let her know, gently, that you want to kiss. you can do this by, if she is facing slightly away, blowing very lightly on her ear. Another technique is to run your fingers, either through her hair or lightly across her neck a few inches below her ear. Addressing her, sweetly, by her name.

* If the two of you are standing, make sure your hands are doing something appropriate. Run them through her hair or gently cup the sides of her face. Another thing you can do is wrap an arm around your girl's waist, pulling her body close to yours. Then, have your other hand resting on her hip. Girls love this, and will try to kiss you and touch you.


Warnings

* Take it FAST if thats what she wants, if you make her wait you will find she will like you much more!

* If your girlfriend is tired or not in the passionate mood, don't start the whole heavy breathing kissing thing because she may think you are a lust hungry freak.

* Think before you kiss on a first date. Rushing doesn't do anyone any good. Take it easy. Wait for the right moment.

* NEVER, EVER THINK TOO MUCH!!!

* Remember, friendship first, then love. But be careful to not get stuck in the awkward situation where she doesn't know that you "like her".

* Don't lower your hands too far down if she's not comfortable with it. If you have before and she didn't say anything, chances are she likes it.

* Don't try to go in for a French kiss too quickly—sometimes this can startle a girl and make her feel pressured.

* If she pulls away or wants to stop, do not go for more. It makes her uncomfortable and that's bad.

* Don't force her into anything. If she says no, then stop, and she will be cool.

* Don't talk smack about her friends or close guy friends. She'll tell them. It will also cause her to wonder if you speak ill of her when she's not around.

* If she rejects you about anything, go with it. Don't run crying. Seriously, guys don't do that.

* Do not use gum to freshen up your breath. It builds up saliva in your mouth, which makes your breath worse.

* Please, don't do the "you paint it on and I take it off" when she's wearing lip gloss until you've been together for at least... 1 month. It comes across as really cool.

* If you lean forward, but she turns away, dont kiss her. It makes you look desperate.

* If you've just eaten something, wait for a while before kissing her, especially if you two like to make-out. Nothing triggers the gag reflex more than feeling or tasting chewed up food parts in the other person's mouth.

* DON'T feel that you have to kiss her as soon as you go out with her. Some girls don't like that. If she doesn't like that, go along with it. Don't try to pressure her as she will think that you look at girls as sex objects.

* If the girl has clearly spent a lot of time on her hair then it isn't such a good idea to touch her hair too much if at all, you could ask her if she is ok with it.